Top Twelve Questions To Ask Before Marriage
8. Have you been sexually active and how do you feel about sex?
If either of you have been sexually active the obvious next step is to be tested for STDs. It is also important to talk about how you feel about sex in marriage. Most couples will find that there is a difference in their desire levels when it comes to sex. Differences in libido is something that couples can work through if they are caring and respectful.
However if you have almost no interest in sex and your partner feels that sex is a vital part of marriage then it is important to be honest with yourself and with each other. Expecting your partner to either enjoy sex or to be celebate to meet your preferences will lead to a great deal of frustration.